If you’re looking for a new experience or if you’re just wanting to spice up your sex life with your partner, it might be worth hiring the services of a professional sex worker. Luckily for those in Victoria, licensed brothels are legally permitted to offer various sexual services for people of discerning taste.
That being said, if you haven’t stepped inside a brothel before, it can be an extremely intimidating prospect. How do you know what to do and what not to do? How do you choose a lady? All of these unknowns can make the process a lot more nerve-wracking than it needs to be.
As any reputable establishment will tell you, the brothel experience should be a fun and relaxing one. So, if you’re feeling nervous, it might help to know a little bit about what to expect from your first time.
In this article, we’re going to discuss the key things that you need to know before stepping foot in a brothel.
Making an appointment
In most cases, you will be able to make a booking via a phone call or an email. Some establishments also allow walk-ins but it’s best to check their website before doing this.
Calling ahead of time will also give you the chance to ask any questions about the services that the brothel offers, the types of rooms that they have, parking specifics and so on.
In addition, most brothels outline their booking, reception and introductory process on their websites. So, if you’re new to the brothel, be sure to read their first timer guide thoroughly.
Choosing your lady
Once you’ve arrived at the brothel, a friendly receptionist will be there to greet you. They’ll then escort you into an introduction room where you’ll be informed of their rates, extra services, safety guidelines and so on. This might be done via a pre-recorded video or by the receptionist themselves.
Afterwards, the ladies will enter the room and introduce themselves to you one by one. This is your chance to get to know them and see which one you like the most. You can ask them about positions, fantasy/role-playing options and other services that you might be interested in.
After you’ve been introduced to all the women, you will be privately asked if one has caught your eye. Once you’ve decided, the receptionist will confirm your booking as well as any extra services that you and your lady agreed on.
Once all of that is sorted, your lady will then escort you to your room.
In most (if not all) licensed brothels, you will be required to take a shower in the room before anything else. This is expected even if you showered right before getting to the venue. Usually, your shower time will not cut into your fun time.
Brothels will also have grooming requirements but they tend to differ depending on the establishment. In general, however, you should be as prepared as you can be.You should shave (upstairs and downstairs), be as clean as you can and present yourself well.
Sex workers have the right of refusal
Though the ladies are there to serve you, their health and safety as legal workers is always a top priority. As such, each worker has the right to refuse certain services that make them feel unsafe or uncomfortable.
Standard bookings in most licensed brothels usually means oral sex on you as well as intercourse with a condom, which is to be worn at all times. Anything beyond this will need to be discussed and confirmed with the ladies themselves.
As per the Australian Centre for the Study of Sexual Assault, sexual assault is considered a crime even if the victim involved is a sex worker and even if they’ve agreed to another type of sexual service. In this case, sexual assault is defined as sexual behaviour without explicit consent from the worker.
So, for the sake of the ladies as well as your own, make sure you have consent before acting on anything.
Simply treat the ladies with respect and they will make sure that you have a fantastic experience.
We hope that this short guide has given you a good idea of what to expect from your first brothel experience. At the end of the day, if you treat everyone there with respect and kindness, you shouldn’t have too much of a problem. Above all, make sure you relax and enjoy the experience. After all, that’s what you’re there for.